Why women agree to first-time anal ten women reveal what made them try back door for the first time. im currently 32 weeks pregnant, and for some reason i have an intense craving for anal sex. In the past i was against it, and my husband has never asked this of me. He said he has tried it before when he was younger and that it wasnt. ive been dating my girlfriend for about 10 months, and weve tried everything else, and were very sexually active with each other. Ive tried fingering her ass a few times, and she seems to have enjoyed it a bit. One time while i was fingering her, she said we definitely have to try that later. Anal intercourse is the penetration of the anus and most women do not really like the idea. The most common reason is that they cant imagine why you would want to have such an idea in the first place. However, anal sex can be really fulfilling to both parties and it might lead to more sex ideas in future. If youve ever tried to take a girl home with you, or youve ever been in a relationship, you know that sometimes women need persuading. And when it comes to persuading women, youd be forgiven for thinking that this was a near-universal point of suffering for most men. About two months ago i wrote a post asking should you apologize to women? At the beginning of that post, i mentioned the. Like anything in life, if the idea of anal sex doesnt inspire an enthusiastic hell yes you probably shouldnt do it.