wonder what anal sex is like? You can either try it or learn from these 12 women, who spilled the dirty details about having butt sex for the very first time. theres no one way to describe anal sex, just like theres no one way to describe an orgasm, as it feels different for every woman. lots of women dont like, want, or do anal sex (examples here, here, here, and here), and the data still suggest these women are the majority. but these grandmothers do want to, theyre glad to share what theyve learned about sex and relationships and bodies in their lives. The stigma about older women not talking about sex is not only not true, its dangerous, and the onus may fall on physicians who dont think their patients are having sex. but still, anal sex is one of those things women have very strong feelings about. Some love it, and some hate it and for that reason, we got to the bottom of it (so to speak!) about how women. when women do have anal sex, the overwhelming majority do so at the request of their male partner. after researchers surveyed more than 2,000 men and women about their sexual behaviors, they found that nearly 43 percent of men and 37 percent. the common narrative goes like this women dont like anal sex, its something that men want of them, and if it ever ends up happening, women are often coerced into it, or agree to do it just. Anal sex, and a desire for it, serves different purposes for men. The strongest and most common argument that men voice is that a woman who will engage in anal sex is inherently arousing. Women were more likely to have anal sex if theyve had sex with women, had an unintentional pregnancy, lost her virginity before the age of 16, and had been treated for a sexually transmitted.