As a christian organization, we draw our beliefs about sexuality from the bible. And scripture makes it clear that sex is gods special gift to a husband and wife within the exclusive bonds of marriage. Beyond that, there are three important things the bible says about the meaning and purpose of marital sex. Contrary to the current and increasing popularity of anal sex, these professionals warn against having anal sex. They warn of damage to the wifes anus and infection to her genitals. But its also statistically unlikely for a teen to commit only to anal or oral sex for too long the same study found that only about 4 percent of 20- to 24-year-olds managed the feat. 50 thoughts on christians, anal sex and anal play dan says jun 12, 2014 it is possible (likely?) those engaging in penetration with something larger than a finger are more adventurous and more sensual in nature and thus are more inclined to more frequent sex and more experimentation as they look for a more stimulating experience. In her new book, christians under covers evangelicals and sexual pleasure on the internet, university of nebraska-lincoln sociologist kelsy burke offers small peek under the covers of the sex lives of evangelical christians and her findings reveal a lot of kinky behavior, including anal play. outside of marriage, all forms of sex, including anal sex, are sinful and immoral. Since the bible nowhere condemns, or even mentions, anal sex within the confines of marriage, it would appear that anal sex falls within the mutual consent principle (1 corinthians 75). In a recent discussion of the question on the 400th episode of ask pastor john, the first consideration that comes into play when answering this question says piper is that oral sex should be done within the confines of marriage. I think it is wrong outside marriageoral sex is even more intimate and delicate, it seems, than copulation. Paul, one of the most prominent christian early church leaders who had an impact on the way christians view sex was st. Influenced by platos philosophy, he promoted the idea that untamed sexual desire was a sign of rebellion against god. My question is, do you think its okay to just do oral sex sometimes to meet the needs of one another rather than full sex. I know sometimes one spouse might not be in the mood but would be willing to do oral to meet the other needs. Sin tainted our whole world, including the area of intimacy and sex. Abuse and sin can warp our view of sex, and i feel that may be the case here. Distasteful is an adjective that was never meant to describe sex with our spouse.